“Emotional intelligence” is the ability to identify and manage your feelings, as well as the feelings of others, is a hot term in business right now, however, my 25 years in the business of people have taught me that the most powerful component of Emotional Intelligence is Emotional Bravery.
Emotional Bravery is the willingness to acknowledge and work with feelings, even when they make things messy and more complicated. Emotional Bravery is how you show the outside world the inner work that you have done inside. How you put your own skin in the game. How you take emotional awareness, and emotional agility, and funnel them into courageous action..
Maya Angelou’s salvo that “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel,” is a personal North Star for me. I’d add to it that people will selflessly give you their hearts when you acknowledge, nurture, and inspire theirs in return.
How we show up is everything.